tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post7677769418384604531..comments2023-11-02T09:10:48.866-04:00Comments on the words i type...: Lessons I'm Learning... Love List ThursdaysJust Kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-67669569132552482782008-08-15T17:28:00.000-04:002008-08-15T17:28:00.000-04:00Kay C... I remember reading that post when you pos...Kay C... I remember reading that post when you posted the link. I have to come over and visit your love list additions.<BR/><BR/>Monique... I agree yet once trust is lost, you can regain it but always with the side eye and a bunch of questions. I've been on both sides - losing trust in others and others losing trust in me.Just Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-39182444665553361892008-08-15T16:18:00.000-04:002008-08-15T16:18:00.000-04:00This post kind of goes in line with my question of...This post kind of goes in line with my question of the week: do you believe in second chances in a relationship? Trust is extremely important. Once it's lost completely, one can almost never get it back.Moniquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09827625567697800795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-68047099984758279992008-08-15T10:00:00.000-04:002008-08-15T10:00:00.000-04:00You know I love Leela James, I posted that exact l...You know I love Leela James, I posted that exact link in one of my older posts. That song was my truth while I healed.<BR/><BR/>Trust is something plenty of people want, but not many can earn and keep. I agree that you must recognize what is causing you to not trust your SO while still keeping your eyes open.<BR/><BR/>Learning the lesson is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. The Love List seems to be working a little too well for me. I think I need to add to it and be a little more specific. <BR/><BR/>Continue to learn and grow, sister.KayC, The Quiet Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906296213022463052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-29833127144235460852008-08-15T09:20:00.000-04:002008-08-15T09:20:00.000-04:00Kiaya... The love list is definitely exposing OUR ...Kiaya... The love list is definitely exposing OUR truths. Love your comment. Thank you.Just Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-70537552701534659132008-08-15T08:18:00.002-04:002008-08-15T08:18:00.002-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kiayaphdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11094108050143370728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-53378264974237022312008-08-15T08:18:00.001-04:002008-08-15T08:18:00.001-04:00I am learning that the ability to trust comes with...I am learning that the ability to trust comes with my ability to recognize what I need and want in a mate. If I have chosen well, out of my need for certain qualities and attributes, then trust becomes a non-issue. <BR/><BR/>I have learned that when I have difficulties trusting someone, it is a sign that I have not chosen well, and my subconscious starts poking me and pointing that out. My love list is helping me to recognize that more and more. You expressed it well.<BR/><BR/>Oh, and I love Leela James; that's a big voice for a little bitty woman!Kiayaphdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11094108050143370728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-36340796340292959942008-08-15T08:18:00.000-04:002008-08-15T08:18:00.000-04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Kiayaphdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11094108050143370728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-8559548899356139202008-08-15T04:45:00.000-04:002008-08-15T04:45:00.000-04:00Chezniki... I completely feel you, everyday is a j...Chezniki... I completely feel you, everyday is a journey. I have to really take the time to think of exactly when trusting became such an issue and do some reverse work.<BR/><BR/><I>"For now all I see in the near future is a series of meaningless, yet hot, repeat booty calls" </I>- WOMAN you crazy! LOL<BR/><BR/>Lovebabz... Yes! Amen Sister! I agree with your comment totally. Thank you - from reading yours I thought love lists were simple but it's work digging into the "self" for the real.Just Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-30982937011503689272008-08-15T00:45:00.000-04:002008-08-15T00:45:00.000-04:00Excellent post!I think people let their insecuriti...Excellent post!<BR/><BR/>I think people let their insecurities interfere with trusting. I think if you are insecure and doubtful of who you <BR/>are then trust is going to be a big issue. I think there is a lot of confusion around what real trust is and where insecurities begins.<BR/><BR/>I am so loving your LOVE LIST!Babz Rawls Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-37742687480463105252008-08-14T22:13:00.000-04:002008-08-14T22:13:00.000-04:00Trust is so difficult for me. After I realized I c...Trust is so difficult for me. After I realized I couldnt trust my parents (yes it goes back that far) it was pretty much a wrap for everybody else. Ive been in love and "open" but not completely open, always holding back some little part (or a huge part in some cases). Maybe one day Ill fall in love again and trust somebody...<BR/><BR/>...for now all I see in the near future is a series of meaningless, yet hot, repeat booty calls<BR/>:-PChezNikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17243052829931305642noreply@blogger.com