tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post8873450978823487977..comments2023-11-02T09:10:48.866-04:00Comments on the words i type...: Be IntentionalJust Kelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-14032580940970328322008-06-05T18:00:00.000-04:002008-06-05T18:00:00.000-04:00Eb... I agree with you. I'm not big on "sorrys" bu...Eb... I agree with you. I'm not big on "sorrys" but if you big enough to try to reverse the situation, then it's ok, but no repeat offenders.<BR/><BR/>Lovebabz... I like your spin. We all make mistakes. It's simply best to forgive and move forward.<BR/><BR/>Jennabee... my Libra sis, I know you feel me! LOL Sincere apologies are welcome but people don't do a lot of thinking before speaking and that's just hurtful.Just Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-78433395118374012932008-06-04T20:13:00.000-04:002008-06-04T20:13:00.000-04:00This is so true...I absolutely, cannot stand the w...This is so true...I absolutely, cannot stand the words..."I'm sorry." Most of the time, people say these words so fast right after they observe your hurt. They have not had enough time to understand what hurt you and why, before they go blurting out the Words "I'm sorry." People use these words so much, it has watered down the effect of the words and they have become meaningless. I appreciate an "I apolgize" that is sincere, once the hurter has understood what they've done and are geniunely concerned with your feelings......great topic to point out.jynneferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02389218084939769242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-88861751302443591972008-06-03T12:24:00.000-04:002008-06-03T12:24:00.000-04:00I have forgiven and been forgiven and it's taught ...I have forgiven and been forgiven and it's taught me to be humble and realize I'm not perfect either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-79328119118398240772008-05-30T09:25:00.000-04:002008-05-30T09:25:00.000-04:00We all hurt people and make mistakes and get it wr...We all hurt people and make mistakes and get it wrong. We are all insecure and foolish and mean. But we are also kind and generous and loving.<BR/><BR/>I am sorry and I mean it. I can accept sorry and keep it moving. If you hurt me then I know I am alive. If I hurt you, then I was being selfish and acting out of fear. Fear is the opposite of love.<BR/><BR/>I do not have a judgement about hurt or sorry. Just that I get it wrong and I get it right. I make mistakes and I make successes.<BR/><BR/>Very thought provoking.Babz Rawls Ivyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04059921674059371076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-32498187176339186102008-05-30T04:03:00.000-04:002008-05-30T04:03:00.000-04:00In most case when people feel they have to apologi...In most case when people feel they have to apologize for something means that they made an assumption about something and after finding out it was wrong want to come back and make it right... <BR/><BR/>but the first 3 letters of assumption shine threw to the type of person that is. <BR/><BR/>I am not big on sorry's either but I do think its better if you are wrong to be a real man/woman and confront that person and say sorry even if they arent the type of person that will ackowledge it.<BR/><BR/>at least your conscience is clear and you tried to make things right with them.Eb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-25719161758671881202008-05-28T17:10:00.000-04:002008-05-28T17:10:00.000-04:00Charizard... thank you much. Saying what you mean ...Charizard... thank you much. Saying what you mean is very wise.<BR/><BR/>Urban Queen... thank you Sis. We all make mistakes but I commend the person who learns from it and doesn't repeat it. So glad you're ~here~ with me.<BR/><BR/>Don... many thanks to you, especially for taking it a bit further for me <I>"i accept apologies, but I never accept the words spoken from the tongue. Never.</I>Just Kelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04712039954669191129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-41403181361820667742008-05-28T14:56:00.000-04:002008-05-28T14:56:00.000-04:00My second and last suggestion is to actually DO be...<I>My second and last suggestion is to actually DO better.</I><BR/><BR/>Yep.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-20706135071260105752008-05-28T14:55:00.000-04:002008-05-28T14:55:00.000-04:00*applause*Great post. I too feel the same that you...*applause*<BR/><BR/>Great post. I too feel the same that you feel. I can respect a man or woman better if they let me know the real man or woman, speak their peace, then never return to say 'I am sorry' for the damage has already been done. I am not big on those words myself. i accept apologies, but I never accept the words spoken from the tongue. Never.<BR/><BR/>We agree, everyone should think before they speak. Absolute truth.Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02904024507867487521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-14606395991321782562008-05-28T10:28:00.000-04:002008-05-28T10:28:00.000-04:00Sorry should be followed by action.If you are sorr...Sorry should be followed by action.<BR/>If you are sorry then you do what it takes to make it right or to not repeat the mistake.<BR/>My ex husband would say sorry all the time after he did something then turn around and repeat. <BR/>When it gets like that it is best just to let the person go and move on.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06452688501671751879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-548342848443605055.post-4523428464847644462008-05-28T07:11:00.000-04:002008-05-28T07:11:00.000-04:00Yeah..ur post is very tot provoking..very very cuz...Yeah..ur post is very tot provoking..very very cuz I am partly guilty of always doing that and it annoys me to no end when people do the exact same thing...buh I've made up my mind to make a change today..to say only what I mean...Charihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09533015808516013285noreply@blogger.com