Friday, May 16, 2008

How To Date Me

"If you want too feel me, baby
Better be divine
Bring me water for these flowers
Growing out my mind
Give me nothin' just be gentle
Breathe love in my air
Use me, don't abuse me, love me
Cause these herbs are rare"

-Eryah Badu, "Kiss Me On My Neck"

I came across this post idea while blog surfing. Though I'm no longer on the "dating scene", I've realized that even committed relationships can use a little boost.

Even though I am somewhat as the pic describes (LOL), I am more than that, influenced first and foremost by my parents and ripened by life experiences. I am friendly and gentle, I don't like conflict and I DO NOT like to argue. I desire balance, harmony and peace and seek it daily.

By eHow Relationships & Family Editor

Things You'll Need:

~Flower Bouquets
~Museum Tickets
~Opera Tickets
~Symphony Tickets
~Theater Tickets
~Playing Cards
~Deluxe Scrabble

Always behave ethically and fairly with a Libran.
Invite a Libran to dinner with family and friends. They are most sociable in small gatherings.
Play games. Your date probably enjoys board and card games.
Don't take it personally when the Libran can't make a decision. You can be decisive - not pushy.
Take the Libran to a show. They love all things beautiful, particularly music and the visual arts. Don't forget flowers.
Ask the Libran's advice on personal or work-related matters. They are skilled diplomats and will feel engaged and useful.

Tips & Warnings
Your date is a Libra if he or she was born between September 23 and October 22.
Remember, we're all unique individuals, and there is a lot more to a person's astrological makeup than a sun sign.
Getting to know another person takes time. Pay attention, and if you're unsure about what your date wants, ask. Consideration, reliability and kindness count for a lot.
If you know your date's ascendant, or rising sign, read the eHow for that sign as well.


Divine Perception said...

Let me tell you how to date me, a Taurus: Have a bbq grill with assorted meats and bbq sauce. Don't give me much attitude i'm a peaceful soul by nature but i'm aggressive as hell when provoked. When I want some, just give it to me. I dont mind playing chase for a while, it gets the juices flowing but don't make me chase too long. I like shows, and books (we can sit and quietly read at times). I'll give you your space but dont make me feel neglected and all will be well. I am family oriented so, yes we will have dinner with my family or yours at some point. Did I mention to give it up when i want it?

Lovebabz said...

Oh My, I am a taurus, but my-soon-to-be Ex is a libra. so this post was quite interesting...nothing I didn't already know or learn (smile)

Jennabee said...

This is cool...I'm a libra too and so indecisive!!! I just can't help it...Thanks for posting this.


MsKnowitAll said...

Divine... you want dude to serve you up like Ving Rhames in Baby Boy? LOL

Lovebabz... there was no way to know that your soon-to-be-ex is a libra girl. :( hopefully you see all of his good qualities in the post...

Jenna... libra women are simply the coolest, though we are queen procrastinators, it's usually for our good...

Liryc said...

Preach girl, preach.. this is one of my favorite blogs. Though I've been on a temporary hiatus from the blogging world I have to say that I do miss reading your work. So... with this Libra post I think I may come back (I'm still thinking)

As for being queen procrastinators I don't think there's anything we can do to change that. Its something that we'll always live with. From one Libra woman to another Kudos on this one!

MsKnowitAll said...

LIRYC! Yes my Libra homie, I've embraced the fact that I'm slow. It's just me!